Big Strap-On Energy: Strap-on fun for everyone!


I recently had to navigate a personal conflict. The other party was making a series of social power plays that left me feeling frustrated and belittled. Describing the issue to one of my sweethearts, I mentioned that I needed to reach out to this person and try to establish some healthy boundaries but was feeling …
20 things everyone should know about Human Sexuality


*This is a repost of Graham’s 2018 year-end post. I loved it and asked him if I could share it with you. He said yes. Enjoy! Today is the last day of 2018 so here is a list of 20 things I think everyone should know about Human Sexuality as we enter 2019. 1. Sex …
Highway to Your Erogenous Zones: Activities for Exploring the Landscape of Your Body*


Your most important sex organ is your brain, and I want to encourage you to put that beautiful brain of yours to work as you come up with creative ways to take your sex life to the next level. What follows is a series of writing prompts and activities that will help get your juices …
What is Sex Positivity? (Video)


In this first part of a two part video series on Sex and Body Positivity, I invited Kevin Patterson, Elle Chase, Troy Capers, Dirty Lola, Jerome Stuart Nichols, and Dawn Serra to share with us their thoughts on Sex Positivity. For more info on all the contributors, check out the show notes on the video here! …
Good Vibrations: Four Games For Your Vibrator*


Happy February! You’ve just opened your Kink Crate and discovered a fun, fancy new vibrator. Congratulations, you’re in for some good times – alone and with each other. There are endless ways to play with your new toy together. Here are four games you can play alone or with your partner(s) to get the most …
Con-munities of Kink: Fetish-friendly Conferences and Conventions


“You’re into what you’re into, I’m into what I’m into. We don’t have to be into the same shit, and if you’re safe, sane, and happy, then go on and get you some.” ― Matt Fraction, Sex Criminals, Vol. 3: Three the Hard Way Y’all! There is a shocking number of kink, fetish, and BDSM cons …
(Not so) Risky Business: Tips for making sexy time safe(r)
Whip it Good: safety basics for whips


“When a problem comes along, you must whip it. …Whip it good.” – Devo. IMPORTANT NOTE: Of all the implements you can use for impact play, the single tailed whip is widely regarded as one of the most dangerous, and for good reason. These whips are NOT to be underestimated. It is strongly recommended that, …